Florida Gold Coast Chapter Visit

July 22, 2010 13:45 by terry

It has been nearly two months since I had the opportunity to go and visit a chapter. I was excited to get back out to the chapters. This trip was down to sunny Florida to visit the Gold Coast Chapter.

The flight left early on Thursday and everything left and arrived on time. I landed at the West Palm Beach airport, actually a little early, and the chapter vice president, Kaeko Shirasu, was promptly there to pick me up. She took me to Hunters Run Golf and Racquet Club where I was going to stay. They were hosting the event at the club that evening as well. Seems I was going to have a uneventful travel day. WELL... The travel part went well. It was the challenge of my intelligence that derailed everything. The picture on the right was the challenger. Yes, the door knob of my room brought me to my knees. Sometimes we get too dependent on technology such as key cards. At Hunters Run, they used regular keys. At first I didn't think a thing about it. I walk to my room, insert the key, turn the key to unlock the door and then pulled the handle to open the door. It didn't open. Maybe I turned the key the wrong way, so I tried it the other direction. Still did not open. After about 10 minutes of trying, I made the intelligent deduction that the lock must be broken. So, I walked back down to the front desk and "informed them" that their door lock was broken. They gave me a different key and told me someone would be up to assist me. By the time I got back to the room, the door was unlocked and propped open. I entered the room, still not sure if I would be able to get back in once I left. So, I experimented before I left. Come to find out all I needed to do was "push." If I turned the key and pushed, it would open. Talking about feeling stupid. Luckily I'm the Chief "Information" Officer and not the Chief "Mechanical" Officer.

After I regained my dignity, I went down to the area where we were having our meeting to get ready. People started showing up, and show up, and show up until there were well over 60 people there, including my dear friends and HFTP Past Presidents Wendy Zurstadt and Len Bartello. Each one of them had a distinct part in getting me to where I am today. I can't thank them enough. The evening began with a reception and the Hunters Run Club "put on the dog" as we say in the South. Mary Watkins, Hunters Run Club Manager and her team did an amazing job with the reception food and drinks. It was so good that Julie Barber's angelic inner being started to glow forth. Everything was outstanding, almost too good. It was difficult to pull everyone in to listen me speak.

Alex Jewell, Chapter President, started the meeting with some announcements such as their summer social scheduled for next month and the "head-bobbing" entertainment. I think that calls for some investigation on what that is exactly. He then announced that the chapter raised over $20,000 during the Walk-for-Life campaign for the American Cancer Society. AWESOME!!! You'll never know what that will do for a family in need. Keep up the good work and shoot for $30K next year!!

After my presentation, then came dinner. Yes, the food train was still rolling. We entered the banquet room to a large buffet presentation centered by an HFTP Florida Gold Coast ice sculpture. Along the walls were several food stations providing several different dishes such as beef, fish, crab cakes, and something I wasn't real sure what it was, but it was good. After several trips, I pretty much blew my diet for the month. Not that I'm really on one, but you know what I mean. Then came the dessert station that had too many choices from a chocolate fountain to root beer floats. It was amazing. After I ate myself into submission, we all said our good-byes and I made my was back to my room where I was successfully able to navigate the key and get it.

    Chapter Officers:
  • Alex Jewell, President - a.jewell@wycliffecc.com
  • Kaeko Shirasu, Vice President
  • Donald Terrell, Treasurer
  • Wendy Zurstadt, Secretary


The next morning I began my journey back home when chapter president Alex Jewell came and took me to the airport. We boarded the plane and headed towards Atlanta on time. So far, so good. Spoke too soon. About 30 minutes from Atlanta the pilot comes on the intercom and says that we have been put into a holding pattern because the Atlanta airport "lost their radar!" Now I'm no aviation expert, but I would think a radar was pretty important flying into the busiest airport in the world. Hopefully, they were searching hard to find it. But in the meantime, we were delayed in landing because they had to space the planes out a little more than normal. Needless to say, everything else was delayed as well. After a few extra hours in the Atlanta airport, we flew back into Asheville.

Another great trip visiting our HFTP family.

Tuesday and Wednesday was a very emotional time. We took my youngest son Luke down for freshman orientation at North Carolina State University. I was extremely proud that he has been accepted into the School of Engineering for Computer Science. However, I was very sad because he will be moving four hours away in the next few weeks and won't need his dad anymore. Well, except to pay the bills, which also brought tears.

Until next time...

San Diego Chapter Visit and Houston Education Conference

May 27, 2010 02:49 by terry

Another exciting week in the HFTP World. Last Wednesday I loaded the plane in Asheville heading towards San Diego, through Atlanta of course, to visit their chapter. It was a beautiful day to fly and everything arrived and left on time.

After arriving I took the shuttle over to the Sheraton San Diego Hotel and Marina. It was a beautiful hotel right on the marina (you probably guessed that already from the name) and my room had an amazing view. I had a couple hours to rest and iron my clothes! After traveling out of a carryon, I've learned the art of ironing. And reusing clothes, but maybe you didn't want to know that.

My lovely host, Robyn Hennon, President of the San Diego Chapter, picked me up and we traveled to the site of the meeting. OMG! What a beautiful location. It was at the LaJolla Beach and Tennis Club. The meeting room was literally about 30 yards from the Pacific Ocean! I was very concerned about how I was going to remain focused while I was speaking. I can understand when the audience doesn't pay attention, but it's real bad when the speaker doesn't pay attention either!!

After a great reception, Robyn got up to award the current year's recipient of the scholarship. This year's winner is Erin Nickerson. She is from Mission Viejo, California. She is attending California State San Marcos majoring in Business Administration/Accounting. She is also seeking a minor in Bio Technologies. Which I thought was an amazing combination. Even though she doesn't look the part, she is definitely a geek! Welcome to the geek club! Her goal is to work in hospitality, but if that doesn't work, she hopes to work in the accounting office of a Bio Tech firm. Congratulations Erin and good luck!

After a great dinner I got up to share how they can gain personal pride in themselves through HFTP. However, I feel I must apologize. I didn't do a very good job. I had a little technical difficulties as I started and I just never got in a good rhythm. I guess that happens from time to time but that doesn't mean I like it. We have such an amazing association and I didn't represent it well. I hope someone got something out of it and became motivated to get involved. It is worth it! The audience was most gracious and attentive and I appreciate that. I hope that you will allow me to come back in the future to share. I can do better.

    Chapter Officers:
  • Robyn Hennon, President - rhennon@coronadoyc.org
  • Caryn Cumerlato, Vice President of Locations
  • Jason Hizer, Vice President of Speakers
  • Jessica Roemer, Treasurer
  • Brooke Vandenbrink, Secretary

Next morning I was off to Houston for the 2nd Annual Houston Education Conference. The flights were all fine and I was picked up by Lisa Funk, HFTP Global Treasurer. It was my first time in Houston and no one warned me that it was 147° and 210% humidity! When the option to sit inside or outside was offered at dinner, inside was the reply immediately. Although there were some people sitting outside next to a fire pit. They apparently came from much warmer climates, like Mars!

Just before the conference began the next day, I had lunch with Lisa as well as Agnes DeFranco, HFTP Past President, and Tanya Venegas from the HFTP Research Institute. The conference started out with Colonel Phil Bossert from the United States Air Force talking to us about Leadership Development. He gave us a lot of good information, but the main point I got is the primary characteristic of a great leader is integrity. Integrity can be defined as "doing the right thing even if no one is around." Followers want to follow leaders that are who they say they are. The Colonel was followed by a visit from Annise Parker, Mayor of Houston. She was giving an update on the economic climate in Houston and some initiatives that are being worked on to make improvements. One stat that she mentioned was a surprise at least to me. Houston is the most ethnically diverse population of a major city in the U.S. Due to the large port, they have groups of people from nearly every corner of the world. She was very engaged and welcoming as indicated by her blue jeans, golf shirt and flat hat-hair. She had just came from a charity golf tournament where she played her first golf game ever. She said her team shot a 57, so I feel she pulled some mayoral power and stacked her team.

After the break, Ron Luster, Vice President of Employee Benefits with Willis shared with us the Impact of Healthcare Reform of 2010. OMG!! Someone must have doing some serious drugs when they came up with that one. The only thing that I'm glad is that we'll have insurance to buy all the drugs we need to help us administer this thing. Then Lyle Worthington, CIO for Horseshoe Bay Resort finished out the day with a great session on how we can all save money and resources by using virtualization technologies on our computers and servers.  Lyle is a fantastic speaker on IT related topics and I encourage everyone to use him for your chapter.  He'll do a great job. It was a great first day of education.

That evening we enjoyed a great reception at the Union Station next to the Minute Maid Ballpark. I had the privilege of seeing Michael Horrocks, HFTP Past President 1994-1995. The Houston Chapter has a long history of HFTP leadership including Ms. Agnes pictured with us. After eating we when into the park where we saw the Houston Astros beat the number one team in the majors, the Tampa Bay Rays 2-1. It was a great game and was followed up by a great fireworks display. Man, this Houston crowd knows how to make their guests feel welcome. Click here to enjoy a video of the firework show!!!

The next day began with my presentation on Gaining Pride. 8am on Saturday morning, you can't imagine how excited people were to hear me. I tried to liven them up by showing them the above video of the fireworks. Arlene Remirez, the new Controller for the Carlton Woods Country Club followed with several tips on Keeping Your Money. It was a great session that she will be doing at the Annual Convention as well. You should make plans to come. After the lunch break Mark Lipsitt, Founder and CEO of The Lipsitt Group shared a repeat/updated session from last year's conference about Cool Technology and Free Stuff. Very enlightening on all the technologies available for us online for free. With the advances of "cloud-based" computing, we all should investigate if a free solution is available before we go purchasing software. Then Daniel Conti, Director of Finance at The Ritz-Carlton Golf Club & Spa shared his session on Customer Service Without Spending Your Last Dime. A session that has been a favorite at numerous HFTP events throughout the country and he did his normal outstanding job. I like this presentation because it reminds us that even though we are in the background, we are all part of customer service. We closed the conference with Ken Smith, Hospitality Consultant and former Senior Vice President Operations for Hilton shared about the State of the Hospitality Economy. He was an upbeat and energetic presenter even though the information was less than upbeat. Things are getting better, but we have a long way to go as if you didn't know that already.

    Chapter Officers:
  • Bret Myers, President - legraphic2@aol.com
  • James Doolittle, President Elect
  • Ursula Cornish, Vice President
  • Calvin Upton, Treasurer
  • Yuk "Vicky" Chan, Secretary

The trip home went well. Ms. Lisa graciously volunteered to take me to the airport and I greatly appreciated it. All was smooth except when I knocked over my luggage and the yogurt that I just purchased at Starbucks exploded all in and over my luggage. I knew trying to eat that healthy stuff was just a bad idea.

No trips planned until we all meet in Orlando for HITEC 2010. I hope to see everyone there, it is going to be great.

Until then...

HTSIC and Milwaukee Chapter Visit

May 7, 2010 10:26 by terry

The week started out in Chicago to attend the Hospitality Technology Strategic Initiative Council (HTSIC) meeting. The HTSIC is a collaboration of hospitality associations to address the technology needs of our industry. Some of the associations represented are: Hospitality Sales & Marketing Association International (HSMAI), Hospitality Asset Management Association (HAMA), OpenTravel (OT), Hotel Technology Next Generation (HTNG), Convention Industry Council (CIC), Hotel Electronic Distribution Network Association (HEDNA), Hospitality Information Technology Association (HITA), American Hotel and Lodging Association (AH&LA) and of course Hospitality Financial and Technology Professionals (HFTP). As you can see, this is a broad-reaching group and represents most every area of hospitality. Technology issues affect every area of our business, so it makes since that we come together to address them instead of trying to do it individually. This goal is stated in the council's mission statement.

    The HTSIC, composed of senior-level, industry leaders and related hospitality/travel associations, discusses pressing industry needs as they relate to hospitality technology. The council works to identify industry initiatives, find the best possible home for these initiatives and reduce duplication efforts.
This was my first exposure to this council as the senior elected officer of our association. I was quite impressed with the cooperation among the different associations. By leveraging the broad-reach as well as the power of all these varied associations, I feel that we will be able to make some positive impact.

The council's discussion was centered on our industry being targeted by computer hackers at an increasing rate. We've all seen in the news where some of our industry colleagues have experienced data breaches over the past few years. None of us wants to see those news reports to increase. The way to help do that is to make our systems harder to penetrate and the criminals will pass us by. The criminal's mind is to find easy, lucrative targets. They are not interested in spending a lot of time trying to get in. So, if we can make it more difficult, then maybe they'll move on.

Payment Card Industry (PCI) compliance is something that all of us have been working with for many years now and it is extremely important. PCI compliance is not the responsibility of our software vendors, it is our responsibility. PCI centers around security policies and procedures that are at each property. There are many aspects to PCI compliance, but we've identified three areas within the PCI framework that will help close the door on the main vunerabilites that the hackers are using to attack us. They are as follows:
    1. Generic Logons. So many systems have a generic logon to access the system. It could be a default logon at the front desk, an HVAC PC that's in an engineering closet, or an interface PC. All these generic logons should be removed or at least have a password that changes every 90 days placed on them. Hackers are getting into systems by just logging in as one of these generic users. Every computer and server in our properties should require a password to have access, no matter how big or small your operation is.

    2. Firewall Settings. The firewall is your door to the world for your network. It is designed to allow the people you want to come in and those you don't to stay out. Many organizations have too many "doors" open on your firewall. This allows the hacker to gain access into your system. Have your IT Professionals to make sure that you only have the doors open that you absolutely need and if you need a door open, it is only open to the people you allow, not just anyone.

    3. Remote Access. Allowing support vendors access into our systems to help with software or hardware issues is a fact of life for us. We have so many different systems from different vendors that need to be supported. The only way they can help us most of the time it to access our systems remotely. This access can allow a hacker to also gain access. To help secure this, you need to keep that access off until you need it. It can then be turned on, your vendor can fix the problem, and then turn it back off.
Being a CIO, I realize that changing these items can cause inconvenience. But, one phrase I like to use concerning security is, "If it is convenience, then it is not secure." Hackers rely on these conveniences to do their work.

The mission of the council concerning this issue is to educate the users to implement these suggestions. You will notice that is takes zero capital money to do these things and it will take you a long way towards the security needed. I do want to point out that these are not the only things you should be doing. PCI compliance involves much more, but these are a start. Be looking for some more information and communication on these matters in the future.

The HTSIC will have a booth at HITEC, so please go by and give us your suggestions and concerns as we continue forward.

The next day after the meeting, I travelled up to Milwaukee to visit the Greater Milwaukee Chapter. I was able to spend the evening with my good friend and HFTP Global Vice-President Tom Smith at his house on the lake in Pewaukee, Wisconsin. I had to put that because I think the names of the towns and areas up there are hilarious.Laughing I'm not making fun, they just strike me as funny. We have some weird names where I live that are also funny like "Chunky Gal Mountain."Surprised How many of you would like to live there? Makes you wonder where the name came from. Undecided

The next evening we had the meeting with the chapter at the Harley-Davidson Museum. Now, that's a cool place for a meeting, especially for a motorcycle rider such as myself.Cool I do have to tell you that I don't ride a Harley. My motorcycle is a Harley-want-a-be. I'm not cool enough to own a Harley. But, it doesn't prevent me from looking at them and dreaming. We met for an early afternoon reception at the lounge there at the museum. As I've always said, alcohol is good before I speak. Then we went into a meeting room for the presentation. The meeting room was called "Flame." So, the signs read "HFTP in Flame." Embarassed

The meeting room was very nice and of course the AV cart was a tool box. Wouldn't have expected anything less. The other meeting rooms were called Bolt, Peace, and Potato. I had to ask what the "Potato" meant. All the other rooms were centered around a motorcycle, but potato I didn't get. I was told that the name came from the sound of a Harley engine when it starts. It makes the sound "po-- po-- po-- tato" when it starts.Undecided Ok, I like riding a motorcycle, but when I start thinking it is talking to me, I need to quit. Tongue out

There was a great group of about 25 in attendance. That was a good number considering they changed their normal meeting date to accommodate my travel schedule. I really appreciate the chapters doing that so I could visit.Kiss They were a great audience and even laughed at the jokes.Smile See, the alcohol helped. It also didn't hurt to have Tom there to make fun of either. Sorry Tom... Innocent

After the meeting we had a great dinner down in the cafe at the museum and most everyone stayed around and talked for a long time. That shows that the chapter has a great group that has bonded. That shows great dedication and great leadership. Their current President, Mary Hoover, had done a great job in keeping the chapter motivated and I even heard them talking about their track to Chapter of the Year!!Laughing Good luck and keep up the good work.

Chapter Officers:
  • President - Mary Hoover - maryhoover@wi.rr.com
  • Vice President - Kay Giese
  • Treasurer - Jane Schneider
  • Secretary - Karen Frank

The next morning I got up early to drive back down to Chicago to catch my flight. My flight wasn't until 11 a.m., but I left extremely early because I didn't know what to expect with traffic. I had time for a small nap when I got to the airport. No drastic travel stories this time except...Wink Being from North Carolina, I am just not used to toll roads. I hardly ever think about them so I'm usually not prepared for them. This is no different. I pulled up to the toll booth and all I had was a $100 bill. Of course, they can't take a bill that large. So, they had to write me up a slip. And so did the next booth.Yell After that one, I decided to get smart and pulled into a gas station to buy a snack and break my $100 bill. Of course, I didn't run into any more toll booths!!Surprised So, now I'm in debt to the state of Illinois for $2.50. They spent more time in payroll and paper supplies than the $2.50 that I'm going to have to send.Money mouth Plus, I have to do it online with what I assume a credit card. Now there's exchange fees on top of that. But, don't worry. I'll pay it. Innocent

Thanks for reading!!

Until next time...

Singapore

April 30, 2010 08:50 by terry

This past week I've had the great honor of going to visit our HFTP chapter in Singapore and attend the Asia Food and Hotel Show. It was especially great because I was able to take my "nearly" 18 year old son Luke with me. Laughing

The trip over began around 11 am on a Saturday. It was a beautiful day and everything was going well. We boarded the plane in Atlanta preparing for the 14 hour flight to Tokyo. We were several hours into the flight when the Captain come on the intercom and announced that a passenger was having medical issues and we were going to have to make an emergency landing in Alaska.Surprised He also told us not to be alarmed when we saw jet fuel gushing out of the end of the wings. They had to dump the fuel because we were too heavy to land. So for about 15 minutes or so we watched as several hundreds, if not thousands of gallons of fuel were being let out. Of course I was hoping they were going to keep enough to land. Undecided

After the announcement from the Captain I became very concerned. First and foremost for the passenger. It must have been quite critical to divert a 747 full of passengers bound for Tokyo. Let's all whisper a prayer for their recovery. Secondly, we only had an hour and a half layover in Tokyo and I knew this little pit-stop would take much longer than that. First off, they had to replace all that fuel they just dumped. Then I noticed the luggage bay doors open and realized they had to find that passenger's luggage. New paper-work, flight plans, etc. We were on the ground for two and a half hours. According to the website, there were no more flights to Singapore that evening. So, I was resolving to get to spend one night in Tokyo. I also resolved not to get aggravated because I was thinking about the person that was heading to Tokyo but ended up in a hospital in Alaska. A night in Tokyo seemed quite trivial. However, when we arrived our flight had been delayed and we made it on to Singapore. Smile

We arrived in Singapore around 4:30 am on Monday morning. Customs was a breeze and we walked out of the airport when the heat and humidity hit us square in the face. Embarassed 4:30 in the morning and I was about to die! It was 80+ degrees and 185% humidity. I broke a sweat just walking 100 yards to get a cab. We got to the hotel and got into our room. It was about 6 am and we crashed. Didn't wake up until 5 pm. Yell So much for getting on the right time zone.

Tuesday was exploration day. We tried to force ourselves to go to sleep at the proper time the night before but I don't think it worked very well. After all, we had only been awake for about 5 hours. I got up and went jogging through the streets. I got a map from the hotel that had a 4km loop. However, I'm not sure how far I ran because I got pretty lost. The people that I asked on the street even looked at the map and were confused, so I didn't feel too bad. The weather wasn't looking too good so we chose to go to the Ion Mall in downtown. Yes ladies, we went shopping.Money mouth This mall covered 4 city blocks all connected by underground tunnels. We ate at a Hong Kong restaurant for breakfast and selected some native items. It was very different for me but quite good. I did play it some safe by ordering a French Toast. Check it out! That's my iPhone setting beside it to give you an idea of how big is was. It was really good. Tongue out

After a little while, it started to clear up so we decided to go to the Botanical Gardens. Another guy thing to do.Undecided It had been highly recommended and was ranked the number 2 tourist attraction on Trip Advisor. It was very nice and we took lots of pictures. Especially for my wife because she's really into the plant, tree and flower thing. I'm not really sure, however, why they have a Botanical Garden. The entire city is a Botanical Garden. There are flowers, trees, plants all throughout the city. And I'm not talking about a tree here and there. It looks like they just planted a city within the woods without moving any trees. They have plant boxes along all the highways and across all the overpasses. The three pictures below is what we saw walking down the street to get to the Botanical Gardens. And even though there were a lot a plant life, there was no trash. Not "very little" trash, "no" trash. In the four days that we were in the city, I saw one cigarette butt in the road. I wish we'd take that kind of care of our cities. It was a place I'd like to live in.


Most of us have made the observation that there seems to be a Starbucks on every corner. Well in Singapore there is literally a 7 Eleven store on every corner. They were everywhere. In some places you could stand in one 7 Eleven store and look out the window and see three more. And they were very small stuck in every nook and cranny. Luke and I was in one store and when two more customers come in, we were overcrowded and bumping into each other. You don't see as many 7 Eleven stores here in the states as you used to. But, trust me, the franchise it alive and well in Singapore. There was even a 7 Eleven in the convention center.

Later that afternoon, we went to the number one tourist attraction on Trip Advisor, the Singapore Zoo. We didn't have a lot of time, so we maintained a pretty steady pace in order to cover the entire zoo. It was quite intense, but we made it. We even had time to catch the Sea Lion water show and played catch with an orangutan. It was an awesome day with my son even though the lack of rest started to catch up with me at the end of the day. I guess I can't keep up with an 18 year old anymore. (As if I that's anything new) Undecided

Wednesday was work day. We spent most of the day at the Asian Hotel and Food Show. It was huge.Surprised There were 9 convention halls at the Singapore Expo Center and every one of them was filled. I really don't think that you could possibly walk down every isle during the entire 3 days of the show. We concentrated on the Technology section of the show, Which, sadly, was very small. It only took us about an hour to visit all the vendors. Of course I was telling them how valuable it would be to be part of the largest hospitality information technology exposition conference in the world, HITEC.Laughing I got several contacts so maybe we'll see some of them in June in Orlando. There was one cool technology that was there. One vendor had a speaker system that would be perfect in most night clubs and lounges. The speakers were the size of a 2x2 drop ceiling tile. When you were standing on the dance floor, it was loud as you would expect. However, when you stepped 5 feet off the floor, the sound was substantially less. So much so that it would be quite easy to carry on a conversation. Very cool. Being a food show, we had to spend time sampling food. It was really the polite thing to do. We didn't want to offend anyone. Innocent

That evening we attended a reception hosted by the Singapore HFTP Chapter. Originally the chapter had planned a 1/2 day educational seminar. However, several of the speakers had travel problems and apparently they didn't want to hear me talk for 4 hours. (They just didn't know what they were missing)Cool Therefore, they cancelled the seminar. I really appreciated the chapter still arranging a gathering so I would have the opportunity to meet them. About a dozen members met my son and me at the lounge in the hotel. I had a great time getting to know and talk to them. I took a few minutes to share how things are going in HFTP. It was a great time. My son got a little bored, but he hung in there with me.

Chapter Officers:

  • James Lee, President - lee.james@fourseasons.com
  • Mark Kendall, Vice President


  • Thursday was another opportunity to explore the sights. We went to a local attraction called Sentosa Island, Asia's favorite playground (that's what the sign said). It is the beach and water park area. We played on the beach and swam in the ocean for awhile. Luke wanted to ride the surfing wave pool. But he didn't have a photo ID. So, they wouldn't let him ride.Frown So, we decided to spend the rest of the afternoon at Universal Studios Singapore. Of course I could have done without the wall of water that hit us when we rode the Jurrassic Park water ride. Yell

    When we left Sentosa Island, we asked the taxi driver, "Where was the best place to get souvenirs." We were under strict orders that the souvenirs had to be really special since we were so far away. So, the taxi driver drops us off at China Town. They are so hospitable there. You just walk down the street and everyone wants to invite you in and give you an amazing deal.Wink We found several great items and based on the reactions when we got home, we did pretty well.

    The next morning started at 3am to finish packing to catch a cab at 4am for our 6:15am flight back.Frown There was nothing too exciting on the trip back. We flew from Singapore to Tokyo to Minneapolis to Atlanta to Asheville. I let Luke use my First Class upgrade from Minneapolis to Atlanta. I believe he cleaned them out of snacks and Coke.Smile He seemed to enjoy the experience. At least he better. I went back to use his seat and lo and behold, there was a mom, her 10-month-old baby and their dog.Surprised Not exactly the peaceful ride I'd had hoped after already being 18 hours in the air. But after that long, I probably scared them more than they scared me.

    Actually, Luke flew the last leg home from Atlanta and I stayed to attend the Microsoft Convergence Conference. So, it would be another 4 days before I actually got home.Frown I was really ready to get home, but the conference was very beneficial and I learned a lot. I also had the opportunity to spend one evening with Rich Siegel, owner of Hospitality Upgrade Magazine and his entire team as well as their families. It was their "post issue release" dinner and I was the "surprise" guest. As those of you that know Rich would imagine, I was a little skeptical when he contacted me and asked if I would be his "surprise" guest.Undecided But, once I found out what it was, I was honored to be asked and it was a wonderful evening. Definitely the highlight of the 4 days in Atlanta. He has a great team and take the opportunity to thank them when you can. They work really hard and have to deal with Rich every day. That deserves something, don't you think? Kiss

    It was an amazing 11 days and I really appreciate the opportunity to go and visit our Asian members. It was an added benefit to have my son come with me. It was an experience I'll never forget.

    Until next time...

    South Carolina Chapter Visit

    April 20, 2010 14:00 by terry

    First off, sorry for the delay in posting. This has been a hectic week. After all, it is the last week of tax season. Last Friday, April 9th I drove down to Columbia, South Carolina to visit the HFTP South Carolina Chapter.

    It was a beautiful day as my wife and I set out on the 3-hour drive (no there was no skipper and his mate nor a millionaire and his wife - if you are not sure what that means, ask your parentsTongue out) to the campus of the University of South Carolina. The meeting was at the Carolina Coliseum. Well, it was in one of the classrooms in the Coliseum. It just sounded cooler to say it was at the Carolina Coliseum.Cool

    We went into the classroom and got my laptop all set up and ready to go. I was going over a few details with Chris Koepper, the Chapter President and R.P. Raman, HFTP Global Secretary and Chapter Board Member. Then they started to come in. They kept coming and coming and coming. Before I knew it, the room was filled with over 100 college students.Surprised There was even a group of students that travelled 2 1/2 hours from the Coastal Carolina University. I wasn't expecting so many students, but I have to admit, I was soooo excited. I absolutely love having the opportunity to speak to the young professionals about our fantastic industry and association.Laughing Now, I realize that a room full of students didn't just come to listen to me. They were asked to by their professors as a class assignment or extra credit.Undecided After all, it was a beautiful Friday afternoon. But, for whatever reason, I was sure glad they were there.

    I shared with them about how great our association is and how they can utilize HFTP to prepare for and succeed in the hospitality industry. I spoke for about and hour and a half and as far as I could tell, no one fell asleep.Wink Not bad for an old guy talking with a bunch of college kids. One thing that I did learn is that the jokes that normally work with us old folks just receive some pitiful stares from the kids.Embarassed I promise that the next time I get to talk with a student chapter, I'll update the jokes.

    After it was over I had several of them come up to me to get a picture made with me. Made me feel like a pop-star.Cool Of course the real reason was that the professors would only give them credit if they had a picture as proof that they came to the session. But, when you have 3 lovely ladies come up to you to get a picture, you really don't care why, it just makes you feel good.Laughing

      The Chapter Officers are:
    • Chris Koepper, President - ckoepper@cliffscommunities.com
    • Robert Usher, Vice President
    • Chris Pitcock, Treasurer

    Until next time...

    First Coast Chapter

    March 24, 2010 08:50 by terry

    Spring seemed to tease us over this past weekend as I woke up to a dusting of snow Yell when I prepared to leave for Jacksonville to visit with the HFTP First Coast Chapter. I arrive at the airport and was setting in the terminal when the agent announced that the pilot wanted to check out the hydraulic system. Well, I was thinking "You take your time and make sure it is fine." Maintenance on a plane is not something to just wing it (get it Wink). They put me on another flight an hour later, which still gave me time to catch my connector in Atlanta. I was fine with the change except when I thought about the extra hour of sleep I could have had. Cry

    After arriving in Jacksonville, we went to the San Jose Country Club for a fantastic lunch and an entire afternoon of education. We began with a session on developing cash flow from Nancy Boyle, Director of the Small Business Resource Network. Her presentation was very informative, but the best information was when most all the participants started sharing their ideas and experiences. That's a great benefit of face-to-face meetings and sessions. We tried to pry out of her what are some of the hot, new businesses being started. She quickly reminded us that she was a government employee and if she knew what that was, she wouldn't be there. Money mouth Next Michael Seitzinger, a compensation and performance management consultant talked to us about everyone's favorite topic: performance reviews. He actually asked us if we'd prefer to be there listening about performance reviews or having a root canal. I could see that some of the people were struggling to decide.Undecided He did, however, provide some very useful tips to help make that process more organized and efficient. We finished the day with Mark Oliff, National Sales Director with Johnson Morgan & White giving us Strategies for Maximizing Collection. He shared that the basics of collection is persistence, hard work and common since. Of course, his "strong" New York accent reminded me of several movie and TV characters that were also good at "collection." Sealed

    It was a great meeting with around 22 attendees, which is really good considering that the chapter currently only has 28 members. This chapter has worked real hard since they were chartered three years ago. And in that short amount of time they were Chapter of the Year runner-up in 2008 and won the Chapter of the Year in 2009. Great job and keep up the good work. Laughing

    Officers:

  • President - William Ackland (wackland@gatepetro.com) pictured with me.
  • Vice President - Peter Smith, CHTP
  • Treasurer - Cynthia Hack
  • Secretary - Arlette Keeley

  • On the way home I sit beside Mr. Gene Mikell, Chief Video Engineer for Fox Sports. He's the guy that sits in the truck and makes sure that the cameras are broadcasting the best picture possible. He is adjusting the color mix, brightness & contrasts of every camera so our picture looks like we are there. He has broadcast over 10 Super Bowls and will be in the new Dallas stadium to broadcast Super Bowl XLV next year. Being a techie guy and an AV nut, it was a fascinating conversation. Tongue out It was also fascinating that he still uses a tube CRT both at work and at home because it displays the "true" colors. He says the LCD TV just does not have the color depth. However he tells me that the new LED TVs are very close to a CRT. Our "advances" in technology is about to "catch up" with the 30+ year old technology. Surprised He did tell me what his professional colleagues says is the best TV on the market. If you are interested, drop me an email. Wink  It's been a long time since I wished my flight had been longer. He was heading to Martinsville for the race as he works for Turner Sports during the NASCAR race season. He'll be managing 35 cameras plus the 24 in-car cameras. So, if you are watching the race on Sunday and your HD picture looks awesome, thank Gene.

    Another uneventful trip home!! Hallelujah!! Innocent I'll actually be home for nearly two weeks.

    So, until next time...

    Southern California Chapter Visits

    March 22, 2010 04:11 by terry

    Headed west!!Cool After the Development Conference in New Orleans, I headed out to Los Angeles to visit a few of the chapters in Southern California area. No funny airport story this time, thank goodness!! I arrived at LAX just fine and proceeded to get my car rental. I programmed the GPS for my destination and headed off. OMG!! Those people are crazy!!Surprised I'm not used to being the slowest car on the road. I was constantly checking the gear stick to make sure I wasn't in reverse. I live in the heart of NASCAR country and I never understood how a pretty-boy from California like Jeff Gordon became such a good driver. Now I understand. He just grew up driving on the LA freeway. I felt like I was on the Charlotte Motor Speedway. The speed limit signs must just be mild suggestions.Undecided Therefore, in order to not get run over, I put on some bluegrass and showed them why stock-car racing was born in the South. Probably shouldn't have "bumped" those people out of the way. Just got caught up in the moment. Innocent

    Woke up the next day to a beautiful sunny southern California day and went jogging on Sunset Blvd and Hollywood Blvd. I met so many stars it was amazing. There was Superman, Batman, Spiderman, Zorro, Princess Leia, and Darth Vader. They were just right there walking on the street. I was so surprised because I didn't even think they were real, but sure enough, there they were in the flesh. And the economy must really be rough because they were asking for money to take their picture. That's really sad.

    That evening I met with around 50 members of the LA Chapter at the beautiful Roosevelt Hotel on Hollywood Blvd. We started with a cocktail reception, which was good. As I've said several times, my jokes are much funnier after a few drinks. After dinner I began to share. However, I had to warn them. The meeting room looked over the courtyard of the Grauman’s Chinese Theatre. I told them if a big limo pulled up and a crowd started to gather, I was going to stop talking and grab my camera.Cool They see this stuff all the time, but I don't. However, it didn't happen. So they had to listen to me. Wink

    Officers:

  • President - Toni Bau (tonibau@pacbell.net)
  • Vice President - Anthony Eccher
  • Vice President - Jodi Horowitz
  • Treasurer - James Geary
  • Secretary - Stephanie Liu

  • The next day was another beautiful sunny day. After my morning workout, I packed up, loaded the car, strapped on my helmet, set my GPS coordinates, got any last minute instructions from my pit crew chief, and headed towards the Palm Springs area to visit the Southern California Desert Chapter. It was about a two and half hour drive through the desert. The desert floor was framed with some very tall, snow-capped mountains. It was a beautiful drive. At one point, I saw one of those really big windmills off the side of the road. It was an amazing site spinning in the wind. I don't think I've ever seen one of those before. Then I topped the next ridge and I saw what seemed to be thousands of them. The entire valley floor as well as all the ridge tops was covered with them. It was great to see a community dedicated to alternative energy. I arrived at my hotel and set in the parking lot looking at the temperature gauge in the car. It was reading 92 degrees!!Embarassed I was afraid to get out of the car. My body has not been in that kind of heat in quite a while. I toughed it out and went to settle into my room.

    Later that afternoon I went and joined the Board meeting for the Southern California Desert Chapter at the Bighorn Golf Club in Palm Desert. It was great sitting there listening to the leadership make plans for the chapter. They talked about this really great program they are doing where they get the clubs in the area to complete this very detailed survey about the club operations and then publish the results. It was great to see them working on HFTP's goal to be the source of that type of information to the hospitality community. Great job!! Afterwards, we enjoyed a time of networking and a fabulous dinner with around 45 members of their chapter. Well, at least they did. I talked while they ate. And based on what I saw when I stepped on the scales when I got home, I should do that more often. It is always rewarding to me when people learn something new and get excited about what HFTP is all about. After the meeting a chapter past-president, Katie Miller, talked with me and really lifted my spirits with her words of encouragement. Thanks Katie, your words and passion for HFTP really means a lot to me. Kiss

    Officers:
  • President - Brenda Eisenacher (beisenacher@missionlakescountryclub.com)
  • Vice President - Laurie Watson
  • Secretary - Phyllis Mazur
  • Treasurer - Carolyn Dailey

  • The next day I headed back toward the Newport Beach area. I headed out quite early not sure what the traffic issues may be. Traffic wasn't too bad, but I did run into something strange, at least to me. I was curious why they put stop lights in the middle of the freeway. Well, at least that's what it seemed like. We'd be driving along at regular (California standards) speed when suddenly the traffic would group up and come to a complete stop. We stopped for about 30 seconds then everyone took off as if someone fired a starter's gun and we were back to 70 miles an hour is a matter of seconds. A few miles down the road, it happened again. It happened four or five times on this one stretch of highway. I never saw any reason for the stopping, so I figured either there was a stop light or everyone just got tired of driving and took a quick 30 second break.Yell Anyway, the traffic didn't permanently stop, so I made pretty good time and arrived at the meeting place about 1 1/2 hours early. So, I walked around the port area shops and went and envied at the nice boats in the harbor area while I got my Starbucks fix. It was very nice to relax and sit by the water for a few minutes.

    I met with a small group, mostly the Board, of the Orange County Chapter at the Bayside Restaurant in Newport Beach for lunch. We had a good conversation and discussed some of the issues for their chapter. The leadership of the chapter is having some difficulties in getting participation from its members. (Where have we heard that before?) They are a relatively small chapter with around 30 members primarily from the hotel/resort segment. We discussed several different possibilities, but I encourage you to send an email to their president, Kenny Geh, and give him your ideas and words of encouragement. Hang in there guys and just keep working at it and things will come around.

    Officers:
  • President - Kenny Geh (kenny.geh@IHRCO.com)
  • Vice President - Julie Akkerman
  • Treasurer - Tony Halfpenny

  • It was great meeting with these chapters. There is a lot of enthusiasm and passion for our organization and with those two ingredients, things will happen. I do encourage these chapters, including the San Diego chapter to team up and create a Southern California Regional Conference. You have fantastic facilities and resources to put on a great conference to provide an opportunity for your members to get good quality education and great networking. Those chapters that have organized regional conferences in the past please contact these chapter leaders and encourage them to look into this.

    The trip home was very uneventful. I know that doesn't make for an interesting blog entry, but it was quite refreshing. I did get to see my daughter and give her a great big hug for making me a grandfather at such a young age!! Of course that was after I gave her the "did you not listen to our talk" speech. Foot in mouthIt wasn't a joke, she really is pregnant and I'll be a G-Daddy around the end of October, early November. Laughing

    Hope to see you soon at a future HFTP event.

    HFTP Development Conference

    March 17, 2010 20:38 by terry

    I guess we need to start with the travel comedy part of the trip. I was planning to make it to New Orleans to meet up with our members working on the Education Advisory Council and the Leadership Task Force. However, we all know how the best made plans don't always turn out. Have you ever got a call at 4am in the morning that your flight has been cancelled. Needless to say, it kind of messes with a good night's sleep.Yell They conveniently booked me on another flight that would arrive around 10pm that evening. Kind of defeated the purpose of going down on Saturday. However, after some internet searching and calling the customer service line, I was able to change to a flight that arrived around 5pm. However, once again, I had to re-route through Detroit. So the road from North Carolina to Louisiana goes through Michigan. You need to pull out a map to appreciate how funny that is. Tongue out

    Sunday was March 15th, however, it didn't slow New Orleans from having a St. Patrick's Day Parade. Actually, it was the 3rd St. Patty's Day Parade they had that weekend!!Wink New Orleans chapter member and former HFTP Board member Bob Oprea invited us over to his house which was near the parade route. This was my first New Orleans parade, so I was not really sure what to expect. When the first thing you see was a man dressed in a strange green outfit with orange hair, I believe I was getting the picture. I also quickly realized I was an amateur parade goer among professionals. Most of the people around us were well equipped for parade watching. These guys know how to watch a parade. The floats started coming and they were throwing all kinds of different things to the crowd. Cabbages, carrots, onions, garlic, potatoes, footballs, stuffed animals and of course beads. Tons and tons of beads. They started coming so fast and often, I had to stop taking pictures in order to protect myself from serious injury.Frown Once I was hit by a half-full bag of beads. I guess they got tired of throwing them one at a time and decided to just throw the entire bag. Everyone was having a good time and many people had their St. Patrick outfits. Our ladies made a new friend.Kiss
      

    For many years now we've been hearing from our finance professionals that they needed more instruction in information technology and human resources. Therefore, we decided to dedicate an entire conference to accommodate this request. The HFTP Development Conference was born. We just completed the very first one in New Orleans this past Monday & Tuesday. We had 58 attendees and I feel it was a great success. The Development Conference Task Force as well as the HFTP staff did a great job in creating a lineup of sessions to help our finance members to "develop" their skills outside of finance. The conference began with Bruce Wilkinson leading Surviving the Storms of Change -- Leadership Lessons From Hurricane Katrina. He encouraged, entertained and motivated us to become better leaders. The day continued as we had sessions about networks and Excel. We finished the day with Trent Blizzard giving us some Tools to Knock Your Socks Off. He gave us some really good information and several websites to help us keep our websites as efficient and effective as possible. However, that wasn't the best part of his presentation for me. Many people give me a hard time about what I wear sometimes when I present. However, check out his guy's shoes.Surprised If he can wear orange tennis shoes, then I'm safe. Thanks Trent.

    That evening, the Greater New Orleans HFTP Chapter hosted a reception for the attendees. They had great food as well as a jazz band that provided the entertainment. We all had a great time and New Orleans chapter member Anthony Carter lead us in a Second Line dance. Second line is a tradition in brass band parades in New Orleans. The "main line" is the main section of the parade, or the members of the actual club with the parading permit; those who follow the band just to enjoy the music are called the "second line." The second line's style of traditional dance, in which participants walk and sometimes twirl a parasol or handkerchief in the air, is called "second lining." In otherwords, they showed us the parade crasher's dance.Embarassed It is also been called a jazz funeral without a body. I'm not sure the natives would have been too thrilled with our attempt, but it sure was fun. Thanks Greater New Orleans Chapter for your generosity and hospitality.

    The weekend also brought some very sad news. Early this past Saturday morning, March 13th, we lost a very good friend to HFTP. Mr. Steve Doherty, Senior Client Relations Manager with POST Integrations, passed away after a courageous battle with colon cancer. Steve has been a main stay at HFTP events for many, many years. He was a speaker at numerous events as well as being very active in his local chapter in Florida, including being the local chapter president. I'm really going to miss Steve. He's been a good friend to me for several years. He always included me in his "Friends of POST" dinner even though my company wasn't a client. He took me in and he always said "yes" whenever he was asked to help us out at HFTP. I'm sure many of you have some great stories in memory of Steve. I invite you to post a comment to this blog to share. Steve's family has requested people to make donations to the Cancer Recovery Foundation of America (www.cancerrecovery.org). Giving to others is what Steve was all about.  Let's all join in to help others that are battling this disease as Steve did.  Our HFTP family will miss him greatly.

    The past several days I have experienced several different emotions. The sadness of Steve's passing was combined with the amazing feeling when I heard on Tuesday that I will become a GRANDFATHER this fall!! Yes, my daughter is pregnant.Surprised Apparently all that time in a truck with her new husband was a little too cozy. After the initial shock, we are very excited. However, grandfather, papaw, or grandpa is not going to work. I'm going to be called G-Daddy.Cool They have come off the road, apparently too late, and have gotten jobs and a place to live in Asheville. Knowing my daughter, the upcoming months is going to be fun. I'll keep you posted.

    Hope to see you soon.

    Mid-South Atlantic Regional Conference

    February 23, 2010 08:27 by terry

    The next stop found me in my home state of North Carolina. I travelled down to Pinehurst to attend the 4th Annual HFTP Mid-South Atlantic Conference. Instead of having to navigate airports, I was able to have a leisurely drive with the company of my wife as we engaged in four hours of stimulating conversation. That's my story and I'm sticking to it. Foot in mouth

    The day was absolutely gorgeous. It was in the high 50's and not a cloud in the sky. A fantastic change from all the winter weather we've had over the past several weeks. We arrived just before the conference was to begin and were amazed at what we saw. The attendance exploded over the last couple of weeks and they out-grew their conference space. The vendor/sponsors had to be moved to a different location and the conference lunch had to be moved to the dining room. AWESOME!! This is just another great indicator that things are turning around. Laughing The conference was organized by The Central Carolina Chapter, The Charlotte/Blue Ridge Chapter, The South Carolina Chapter, and The Central Virginia Chapter.

    The numbers that were provided to me say there were 94 attendees!! This is a record for this conference. So, let's recap on how 2010 is shaping up so far for HFTP. First, January exceeded the projections for new membership and membership renewals. Then EHTEC breaks the record for attendance. Then the Mid-South Atlantic Regional has a record attendance. This is looking extremely good and encouraging. Let's keep it going as we look ahead to the HFTP Development Conference March 15 & 16 in New Orleans and HITEC in June.

    There was a great lineup of speakers headed off by Daniel Conti, CHAE, CAM, and Director of Finance for The Ritz Carlton Golf Club & Spa of Jupiter. Daniel is also a current member of the HFTP Global Board of Directors. His session was on "Providing Superior Customer Service Without Spending Your Last Dime." Daniel gave his usual great presentation. The afternoon was packed with great quality sessions finished up by Merilyn Feldstein, M.P.A., JCTC, MBTI helping us to "Understand Yourself and Others."

    There was also a networking opportunity for the attendees to mix and mingle with the 19 vendor sponsors!! I am so thankful to all of our vendor partners that support HFTP with events such as this as well as our Global events. Part of the education opportunities for our members it to share what vendors are offering the solutions that we need in our operations. It is very difficult to research and find vendors that we need, so your willingness to support our events and display your solutions just makes for a win-win opportunity. I encourage all of our HFTP members to thank all of our sponsors for all of our events. Without them, we could not provide the members with all the services at such affordable prices.

    The evening was capped off by an amazing dinner. The food was great, the company was awesome and we had a great time. So much so, I forgot to take any pictures of the dinner.  Yell You'll just have to take my word for it, it was beautiful.

    The next day began with one of my personal favorite speakers at HFTP events, Mr. Jerry Trieber. Jerry, Director of Field Accounting for Crestline Resorts & Hotels is a certified everything and all-around great guy. He has spoken at nearly every HFTP event for many years now and when you hear him present, you'll know why. To make a topic like fraud fun and interesting is not an easy task. But, Jerry can sure do it and even have us singing about it. That song is stuck in my head, by the way. THANKS!! Surprised

    The remainder of the morning was packed with some more great sessions and we concluded just after lunch. It was such a gorgeous day that we assembled for a group picture out in front of our host property The Carolina. I'm not really sure what R.P. is doing, you'll have to ask him yourself. Undecided The picture is at the bottom of the blog.

    After we finished Arlene and I had lunch with Joann Phillips from The Country Club of North Carolina. She served as one of the property contacts for the conference and has been a key player in the Central Carolina Chapter of HFTP for years and years. She has been a source of encouragement for me over the years and is a very dear friend. Of course, she's going to kill me for writing all this for everyone to read, but there's nothing she can do about it!!

    After lunch Arlene and I headed back home. We had another four hours for some more stimulating conversation, of course when Arlene wasn't taking a nap. But it was a beautiful day and when you have scenery like this staring you in the face, you can't really complain about anything. Life is just too good to us.

    When we returned, we went to see the final performance of the play Chicago as performed by the North Buncombe High School Drama Team. My youngest daughter Jill stole the show, of course. She was in the ensemble, but still the star. Cool

    I'd love to hear from you, so drop me a line.

    Look for the dates for next year's Mid-South Atlantic Regional Conference as we go up to Virginia.

    Hope to see you real soon.

    Endings and Beginnings

    January 11, 2010 03:08 by terry

    Ralph Bellamy once said, "Everything ends. But there are always new beginnings." 

    Most all of us were somewhere with loved ones and friends as we counted down the end of 2009 and celebrated the beginning of 2010.  Why do we do that?  What's different about that midnight verses any other midnight?  One of the reasons is we celebrate a since of renewal with the beginning of a new year and close the history books on the old.

    As 2009 came to a close, it also marked the end of a very dear HFTP family member, Mrs. Roz Trieber.  Roz,  health educator and creator of HUMORFUSION was mother of our very own Jerry Trieber, CPA, CHAE, CFE, CFF, former HFTP Global Board Member and a frequent speaker a HFTP events.  Roz was the author of “The Joy of Living…The Journal That Inspires You To Live Life Laughing,” (2007), “Live Life Laughing: An Innovative and Imaginative Approach to Living A Healthier, Happier and More Prosperous Life” (2000), co-authored 43 Ways To Keep You and Your Taste Buddies Happy: Outrageous and Hilarious Humor Laced Between 43 Healthy and Delicious Recipes (2000), and Life After Schmaltz (1990).  She shared her positive attitude as a speaker at our HFTP conferences and has touched many lives and hearts of our HFTP family.

    Unfortunately, I didn't get a chance to know Roz very well.  I consider that a loss.  However, I know beyond a shadow of doubt that she was an amazing lady.  I can tell by the stories that I hear from other HFTP members and see the expressions on their face when they are talking about her.  She was well loved.  I can also tell by her amazing son Jerry.  He's a giant of a man in a small frame.  His character, integrity, and good nature are a reflection of her in him.  Many of you have stories about your encounter with Roz and how she affected your life.  I'd love to hear them.  Please post a comment to this blog and share your story.  I also know how much it would mean to Jerry and his family and let's all keep them in our thoughts and prayers.

    Now it is 2010.  The beginning of a new year and for the Price family marked the beginning of a new life together when my oldest daughter Leah married Isaiah Adams on January 2nd.  That was probably one of the most emotional days of my life.  I believe I experienced every form of emotion possible:  from worry to relief, from mad to happy, from sad to joyful, from rushed to relaxed, from funny to serious, etc.  You name it; we probably felt it at some point during the day.  As with most all wedding ceremonies, everything fell together at 4:59 and the wedding started at 5:00.  It was a beautiful ceremony.  We had it at the Country Club at The Grove Park Inn where I work.  I must say that the staff and the chefs did an amazing job.  If you're looking for a place to hold a wedding, they really know their stuff.

    The ceremony began and I saw my little girl come down the staircase, the same little girl that I was holding in my arms in the hospital nearly 22 years earlier.  I told her back then that I would always be there to take care of her and to love her.  Now, I had to take her by the arm and walk her down the aisle and give her away to another man that is now to be the one to take care of her.  That was extremely hard for me.  I was holding my composure, somewhat, on the outside, but was all to pieces on the inside.  But, I know that she loves him very much and he loves her very much and as Mufasa would say on the Lion King, "That's the circle of life." 

    As I mentioned before, the ceremony was beautiful.  We laughed, we cried, we were proud seeing that beautiful young lady stand there and dedicate herself to her new husband and new life.  After the reception I had a chance to have my little girl all to myself one last time.  She picked out this terribly-sad song called I Loved Her First by Heartland.  It was a tear-jerker, but I didn't mind.  For that brief moment I was back in the hospital holding my little girl and telling her how much I loved her.  Now they are on the road.  Isaiah is a long-haul truck driver and she is travelling with him and living in the truck.  They are happy, so I am happy.






    I hope 2010 offers some amazing new hope for you as well.  I am excited about the possibilities and the opportunities that I have to see many of you at a future chapter visit or HFTP event.  Together we can brighten each others world and share the HFTP PRIDE.

    THANKS
    Terry

    INTRODUCING
    Mr. & Mrs. Isaiah Adams